when your 24.

time flies and when i realized i’m already in this middle age stage. things happened and by far i’m starting to lower my expectation and live by what’s there in the menu. so here are things i encounter and realize during these days : 

romeo and juliet starts to sound so stupid, this movie or story is not romantic. it is stupid. for me, family comes first, love shouldn’t be that stupid, shouldn’t be that useless, shouldn’t be that tragic and too much. use your logic d’oh.

you’ll start ignoring all things you used to thought was a sign. you’ll grow wiser. if God in any kind of god purpose want to show you something, well for the love of God, God will show you. no need to wander around asking whether it was a sign or not, use your logic.

having a boyfriend is not enough. you’ll start looking for a partner, a lifetime partner. why spent another year wasting your not so young age again with someone you know you can’t be with? (ahh)

saturday night doesn’t seems so important like back in the days, where hanging out on saturday night is a must. dvd, family, and just layin around are flattering enough.

news became something you have to know, like know. you can’t be in your 20 something and be an ignorant.

somehow, you’ll get more realistic. well in my case, i do.  

being angry towards something is not cool anymore, you’re like : ah well, like i care. 

traveling became something addictive. it’s like a little escape in your so too much world. 

by time, you’ll learn that people talk too much, ask too much, and expecting too much. don’t get all stress up, don’t get all crazy, we are all the same. you just do your thing and buy an earplug if those sound bother you that much.

being crazy could be nice, but after all, what you need the most is comfort. that is the main thing. being comfortable in anything you do. in anything you wear. comfortable is the key in your life. 

you don’t really need a new friend, all you need is the people who understand you the most. those circle you hang to, but most of all, family is what we have. the kind of people you will depend on. 

well.. this is just my two cent. how’s yours?